Derive the attention mechanism rather than describe it, well enough to read the equations in a paper without skipping them
The Mathematics of Attention

A derivation-first walk through the attention block, taking each design choice in turn and showing what breaks without it.
8 lessons, written and corrected before you arrived. Reading them here needs no account. The first reads the whole way through; the others open and then stop, because a page nobody owns cannot tell who is reading it. Starting the course gives you your own copy, where every idea has problems standing under it and you can ask about any sentence.
This is course 3 of 8 in a reading track: explain the model everybody is actually using. The track is an order, not a gate, and the rest of it is on one page.